HOPE
doesn't want to lie down and die because it is a human fantasy and has no real meaning. (the proof is too complex to write here)
ACCEPTANCE
This civilisation is going to collapse. There is nothing we can do about it. It is game over. The sooner the better because of the accelerating total destruction of life on Earth and its ecosystems by civilisation's high technology and eternal growth paradigm.
Rich people are never satisfied and always want more and bigger. These people (families) have had all the power for centuries or longer because of accumulated (inherited) wealth and they won't stop with doing the only thing they know. This insanity
will never voluntarily stop.
In my estimate, collapse will happen before 2030. I see more trends than others because of my world view from outside of civilisation.
CHOOSE A SIDE
I am on the side of all non-civilisation life-on-Earth
as opposed to
the civilisation side that's busy to heedlessly destroy all life-on-Earth by technology (pushing buttons).
There are no other sides. Civilisation is life-on-Earth's biggest threat ever since the great oxidation event.
To get a good idea of what's lost and the role of civilisation in it, I recommend you read the first half of this book:
"The Unnatural History of the Sea" by Callum Roberts, 456 pageshttps://islandpress.org/books/unnatural-history-seaACTION (when choosing the side of living nature)
Don't participate in civilisation culture. Don't feed the system. Consume only local basic products if possible (by changing your diet, profession, where-you-live, 'lifestyle' etc) and
do not accumulate wealth.
Personal emissions: Emit GHG only when absolutely necessary for survival.
The guilt of any personal carbon footprint should be unbearable. Also the guilt of stimulating biocides use, antibiotics use, deforestation, habitat destruction, toxic waste and the many transport miles and atrocities by buying intensive agri-business products should be unbearable.
Try to respect and salvage as much habitat and life as possible by buying organic and let living nature take its course. This means absolutely no more tidiness. No mowing the grass etc. No more control/domination. Move away from any supremacy over other lifeforms. Let the bugs sting (except when you see them do it; then don't kill). Use the lowest technology possible (or none) for any task.
Minimise non-compostable waste, potable water use, land use and energy use. No more 'making children' until the children have a future again.
They feel like large sacrifices in the beginning but you soon get used to it.
I am far down that route and willing to help if there are questions.
Before I forget: You will feel a much better and richer person. Doing it because it is the only right thing to do.
Soon? part 1 of "how to regain conscience"