Posting here. Mom and Dad 89 and 95 y.o.) under lockdown in senior place, rural Iowa. Moi, I shuttle between 3 residential sites for mentally challenged under lockdowns, meds, overnights. ... Mar 13 - long day - 7 am to 7 pm ok, then an individual coughs, again, at risk for aspiration pneumo. I chide negelient staff, slow, give meds. 9 pm, more meds, very shallow breathing. bad colour, I got 82 for pO2. Nurse, 911, I follow ambulance later to hospital, xrays, strep, influ neg. She is released, I amdone at 2 am. 3 days later she is admitted. Intubated. NO NEW News. 3 days later I go into do meds. I don mask and ask how she is. I state the mask is in case I am asymptomatic and carrying. There is really no one else to do meds. I get email, she is negative, mask off. She came back a few days later , did not improve, back in. 60 yr old mentally challenged. Does not look good. I have seen 4 others die of aspiration pneumo since 1991 taking care of the mentally challenged. So, I look back at all the years I and teams did right in managing dysphagias, cerebellar ataxias, ...
Meanwhile dad is getting cabin fever immensely. I am trying to finesse getting the keys away from him for his car. He calls up and want to come up, get a bottle of wine and 1/2 gallon milk (3 oz wine at bedtime with mom) and have me drive him back and then take the car. I know he will get tossed out of lockdown if he does that. I say stay put, I will be by toningh. I get on my bicycle.
Wicked head wind, 15 miles - 25 km down to him, buy wine and milk and meet him and mom at the door. Mission accomplished.
You just do what you can. when you can; seize the moment when needed. I do have a covenant via L'Arche of a life dedicated to the mentally challenged. So I will just continue to walk 2 or 4 or 8 blocks to various work sites for my vocation.
Not too crazy yet in rural north central Iowa. South Dakota is being idiotic with no restrictions. Minnesota 40 km north is much more locked down. Hopefully they can get some crops in around here. I just might hire somebody to put on new shingles on house, dad was delaying. Peace out.