You seem to have drawn a conclusion from what I typed that is inaccurate. I have been a fierce supporter of the growth system and quite successful I might add. I own a home that is worth $500K, have 4 adult children who have all gone to some of the top schools in the U.S. My wife and I, until recently, earned a combined $250K per year.
I include myself as someone who has spent his entire life doing what I needed to do to sustain the system. I am trapped in the same paradigm that all of us are trapped in. Anyone living in a developed nation who argues they are not guided by the growth paradigm is either delusional or a monk who has taken and adheres to a vow of poverty.
If I am someone who has done little better than merely survive all his life, and most of what little better I have done has been ploughed into a response to the future I and others face (ie dealing with the problems caused by the growth obsession), would you then really argue I am actively sustaining the system?
I would question that, beyond the immediate imperative to interact with it to obtain the essentials for life - food, water, clothing, etc - and to leverage the system itself to construct the means with which to manage without it (my personal project absolutely requires the ability to operate without the system).
The basic needs the system forces participation with the threat of violence backing it up, so I'm not sure I see it exactly as voluntary participation, more that it is prudent to avoid criminality as much as possible in the interests of self preservation (and ironically the system would still feed you as a prisoner). That is to say that it is less risky to feed myself via the system (while developing alternative options) than to fight the system for food.
I think your perspective is coloured by your experiences of life, as is mine. And a person who grows up malnourished in Bangladesh would have yet another perspective, even further along the spectrum. Do they participate in the growth system? No, certainly not in the sense you claim to have. Where is the line between participant and victim? I grant I might fall under participant, in however minor a degree - but there are those where it's hard to argue are anything other than victims.
And you'll find those victims even in developed nations... just perhaps not in the spheres of influence you're used to. A less developed nation still has those who are benefiting from the system - by disposing of the natural resources to feed the insatiable appetites of the westernised consumer.
While I grant it's a nonsense for someone who has fully participated within the system to talk about anything else (nobody would follow it up with the actions required) - for those with less investment in the system, it's a lot easier to contemplate alternatives.
That's also why revolutions are usually started by the portion of the population of lesser socioeconomic means. Less to lose, more to gain.
It is of course the active (and increasing) oppression of the disadvantaged portion of the population that delays action, even as it will amplify the ultimately inevitable chaos. Those who are affluent and comfortable are quite happy with the status quo, and will, as you say - continue to actively participate and by driven by the growth imperative. Ironically, I think those people also talk more about the problems - as it is a luxury to be able to do so (as opposed to just try to fulfill the daily grind of survival).
The chattering classes...