I think the truth is in the middle, while not exactly flat since 2010, the rate of Volume and Extent declines have been less than in 2000-2010. The experts point to internal dynamics of the Arctic system that outweigh the melting conditions during any individual year, or even a decade or more. I don't understand enough about those dynamics to give details. Maybe an ASI expert watching the forum will jump in to do so. The point is that even with a strong long-term trend, there can be extended periods without an obvious decline in the metrics.
The recent "hiatus" in ASI decline has a parallel to the mythical 1998 to 2013 global warming hiatus. That spurious event generated all kinds of debate and skepticism and even serious scientific papers. And of course, it was also manipulated as a political tool by the climate denial industry. Alas then came 2014, then 2015, then 2016, 2017, 2018, 2019, 2020 until the present, which catapulted us into a new temperature regime from which I fear humanity shall never recover, certainly not in my lifetime, and probably not in my children's lifetimes (unless we get real serious about CO2 removal).
The seven warmest years since humans began scientific measurements have been since 2015. That will soon be the "8 warmest years have all been in the 8 years since 2015."
https://public.wmo.int/en/media/press-release/2021-one-of-seven-warmest-years-record-wmo-consolidated-data-shows#:~:text=The%20warmest%20seven%20years%20have,pronounced%20compared%20to%20recent%20years. Instead of saying 2021 was among the warmest years ever, it is just as accurate to use the opposite framing. The current temperature regime, with new heat wave records vastly outnumbering new low temperature records, is cooler than what we will encounter for the next 50 years or more. It only gets hotter from here on. (Plus already statistically validated increases in extreme precipitation, sea level, etc.)
As for the current ASI decline hiatus, remember what the great Forrest Gump said: "It happens." Look at Gero's average daily ASI volume or El Cid's average annual ASI volume graphs for 1981 - 1994. I'm sure climate change skeptics in April 1995 were using the (at the time) flatline ASI volulme graph to say "Where's your global warming?"
Ditto look at El Cid's 1981 - 1997 September or 1982 - 1997 March ASI volume graphs (15-16 year hiatuses!).
Ditto - look at Oren's September Extent graph for 1980 - 1997. Or Oren's graph showing the 5+ MYI value for 1993 - 2003.
Flatline periods occur. Tamino used statistical testing debunk false impressions of a global temperature hiatus, and also addressed the post-2012 ASI decline hiatus at an earlier stage (~ 2016). Now that the "hiatus" has more years under its belt it looks even more visually convincing. But you need a statistician to separate signal from visual noise and to counteract the human tendency to create patterns.
Getting back to the global temperature analogy, this staircase chart ends in 2016, so does not even include the "within top 7 warmest years" of 2017-2021, but it demonstrates that nature sometimes requires a bit of patience to see trends.
And this animated gif shows how starting with the big El Nino year of 1998 gave rise to a false hiatus impression.
Source: Wikipedia
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Global_warming_hiatus The ASI is dying. And we are causing it even though even apart from simple survival there are many other positive benefits and reasons to stop burning fossil fuels (e.g. bye bye Putin). Despite the recent slowdown in decline, there is every reason to believe that there will be a melting season strong enough to cause a BOE within the next "X" years (I don't know what number X stands for, but my guess is that it is 15-25).
But the process does not necessarily increment smoothly. My guess is that while the standard metrics appear stalled, there are qualitative and other changes to the Arctic system and the ASI that we do not measure that continue to erode. Eventually, that weakened foundation will become apparent in the Volume, Area, Thickness, and Extent metrics that we monitor. Termites can chew on a house foundation for years unnoticed, until one day the house collapses.